While receiving multiple pieces of mail for one event might seem excessive, there's reasoning behind the method.

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband and I got a save-the-date card for the wedding of his cousin’s daughter. It was out of state, so they gave a website with names of hotels and prices. Because of the high ...

DEAR MISS MANNERS: My husband and I got a save-the-date card for the wedding of his cousin’s daughter. It was out of state, and they gave a website with names of hotels and prices. Related Articles ...

DEAR MISS MANNERS: I’m used to fielding save-the-date cards for weddings. In those cases, they are a courtesy, allowing us to plan for travel. However, I have a relative who has adopted the ...